Dreading The Holiday Feasts
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Dreading The Holiday Feasts

People can face many challenges during the holiday season, particularly those with disordered eating or body image issues. It highlights the pressure to conform to societal expectations of appearance and food consumption, often leading to feelings of shame, anxiety, and isolation. The article emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, setting boundaries, and seeking support to navigate these challenges. It offers practical tips for managing stress, such as mindfulness techniques, planning ahead, and reframing holiday goals.

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‘Modern Loneliness’: More Connected Yet More Alone Than Ever
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

‘Modern Loneliness’: More Connected Yet More Alone Than Ever

The phenomenon of "modern loneliness," where people feel increasingly isolated despite being hyper-connected through technology. Social media often leads to superficial interactions and a sense of disconnection from authentic relationships. This post emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and actively seeking meaningful connections to combat loneliness. It encourages readers to acknowledge their feelings, identify their needs, and take courageous steps toward building deeper relationships.

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How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Guy’
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Guy’

Boundaries to protect one's mental and emotional well-being. Boundaries are not about being selfish but rather about creating healthier and more sustainable relationships. This article provides practical tips on how to set boundaries effectively, such as communicating clearly, anticipating pushback, and being consistent. It also addresses common challenges like guilt and fear of conflict, offering strategies to overcome them.

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Fishing for Stability: Navigating Borderline Personality Disorder in Families
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Fishing for Stability: Navigating Borderline Personality Disorder in Families

The "Fishes" episode of The Bear offers a raw and relatable portrayal of life with a parent who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The chaotic dinner scene, marked by intense emotions and unpredictable behavior, mirrors the experiences of many who have grown up in similar households. By exploring the Berzatto family's struggles, we can gain a deeper understanding of the impact of BPD on individuals and families.

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