Rogerian Person-Centered Therapy: Self-Acceptance is the Path to Healing
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Rogerian Person-Centered Therapy: Self-Acceptance is the Path to Healing

Rogerian Person-Centered Therapy, developed by Carl Rogers, emphasizes the inherent capacity of individuals to grow and heal through self-exploration within a supportive, non-judgmental environment. This humanistic approach prioritizes empathy, unconditional positive regard, and congruence, fostering a therapeutic relationship where clients can freely explore their thoughts and feelings. Rather than directing solutions, the therapist acts as a facilitator, empowering individuals to develop self-awareness, build self-acceptance, and ultimately, navigate their own path toward personal fulfillment and psychological well-being.

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Self-Care As a Means for Sustainability: Five Journal Prompts For Introspection
Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC

Self-Care As a Means for Sustainability: Five Journal Prompts For Introspection

In an era where "self-care" is a ubiquitous buzzword, often diluted by its widespread use in advertising and social media, its fundamental importance has never been more critical, especially for adults navigating the complexities of their 20s and 30s. This article delves into the true meaning of self-care, defining it as the proactive identification and fulfillment of personal needs through advocacy, empowerment, and prioritization, emphasizing the crucial mind-body connection. By providing a structured approach, including a self-assessment and reflective journal prompts, it aims to guide readers in understanding their baseline, recognizing the short-term and long-term benefits of self-care, and addressing common barriers to its practice.

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Through Trauma-Informed and Focused Therapy: Moving Forward, Not Backward
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Through Trauma-Informed and Focused Therapy: Moving Forward, Not Backward

The word "trauma" itself can trigger anxiety or avoidance, which is entirely understandable given the complexity and delicacy of healing from such experiences; therefore, finding a therapist who understands how to approach trauma with care is crucial, ensuring a safe and supportive environment where you don't feel overwhelmed. Trauma's impact extends beyond the initial event, manifesting in various ways like anxiety, avoidance, relationship struggles, distressing memories, and unexplained physical symptoms, highlighting the importance of trauma-informed and trauma-focused therapy to help individuals move forward at their own pace.

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Internal Family Systems (IFS): A Journey to Understanding Your Inner World
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Internal Family Systems (IFS): A Journey to Understanding Your Inner World

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy offers a unique and compassionate approach to healing, viewing the psyche as a family of distinct "parts" rather than a monolithic entity. Developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, IFS posits that these parts—such as the wounded "exiles," protective "managers," and impulsive "firefighters"—hold valuable roles and deserve understanding, not condemnation. By guiding individuals to connect with their core "Self," characterized by qualities like compassion, calm, and clarity, IFS facilitates inner harmony and healing. It encourages self-leadership, enabling individuals to navigate emotional challenges and cultivate healthier relationships by fostering a deeper understanding and acceptance of their internal landscape.

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The Science of Love: How the Gottman Method Strengthens Relationships
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

The Science of Love: How the Gottman Method Strengthens Relationships

The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on building and strengthening the "Sound Relationship House," a metaphor for a healthy relationship. It emphasizes creating shared meaning, fostering fondness and admiration, turning towards bids for connection, managing conflict constructively, supporting each other's dreams, and building a strong foundation of friendship. Gottman therapy involves assessment through questionnaires and interviews, followed by interventions designed to improve communication, increase intimacy, and enhance conflict resolution skills. It provides couples with practical tools and strategies to navigate challenges, deepen their bond, and create a more fulfilling and lasting partnership.

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The Power of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Practical Solutions for Better Mental Health and Stronger Relationships
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

The Power of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Practical Solutions for Better Mental Health and Stronger Relationships

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a practical, problem-focused therapy that helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to mental health challenges and relationship difficulties. CBT emphasizes the connection between thoughts, feelings, and actions, teaching skills to challenge distorted thinking, manage difficult emotions, and develop healthier coping mechanisms. It's a collaborative approach where therapists and clients work together to set goals, explore specific problems, and practice new skills in real-life situations. CBT is effective for a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, and relationship problems, offering concrete tools and strategies for achieving lasting improvements in mental well-being and building stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

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From Overwhelmed to Empowered: Harnessing Your Emotions with Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) 
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

From Overwhelmed to Empowered: Harnessing Your Emotions with Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) 

Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) is a therapeutic approach that helps individuals and couples understand, process, and transform their emotions to foster healing and growth. EFT emphasizes that emotions are central to well-being and relationships, guiding us like an internal GPS. It's effective for various issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship struggles, by helping individuals recognize, understand, and reshape their emotional experiences, and by helping couples identify negative cycles, explore underlying emotions, and build stronger connections. While it may feel intense and requires time, EFT offers a structured process for developing emotional resilience and deepening self-compassion, ultimately leading to lasting improvements in mental health and relationships.

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Building Confidence Does Not Lead to Arrogance: Debunking the Myths and Building Self-Esteem
Corinne Eisenhardt Corinne Eisenhardt

Building Confidence Does Not Lead to Arrogance: Debunking the Myths and Building Self-Esteem

This article challenges common misconceptions about confidence, arguing that it's not about arrogance or avoiding mistakes, but rather about self-acceptance, resilience, and authentic connection. It debunks myths that equate confidence with arrogance, increased errors, or blindness to flaws, emphasizing that true confidence, often cultivated through therapy, fosters empathy and a willingness to learn and grow. The article highlights the positive impact of confidence on various life areas, including work (leading to greater opportunities and job satisfaction), relationships (promoting healthier dynamics and deeper connections), and overall well-being (encouraging healthy habits and reducing stress). It concludes by offering practical strategies for building confidence, such as focusing on strengths, embracing imperfections, practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, challenging negative self-talk, and seeking supportive relationships, emphasizing that confidence is a continuous journey of self-discovery and growth.

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What to Expect In Your First Therapy Session
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

What to Expect In Your First Therapy Session

This article provides a guide to what to expect in a first therapy session at Angel City Therapy. It covers the general structure, which usually includes introductions and housekeeping, getting to know the client, exploring their goals, and discussing next steps. The article emphasizes that the first session is primarily about building a comfortable connection and establishing a foundation for the therapeutic relationship. It addresses common anxieties by explaining that Angel City Therapy therapists are trained to guide the conversation, that it's okay to feel awkward or unsure what to say, and that there's no pressure to have everything figured out. The article also touches on what therapists might ask, the possibility of crying or receiving a diagnosis in the first session, and why therapy can feel challenging at first. Ultimately, it aims to demystify the process and encourage those considering therapy at Angel City Therapy to take the first step, emphasizing that it's a significant act of self-care and a beginning to a journey of healing and growth.

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What to Expect During Your Free Phone Consultation Call
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

What to Expect During Your Free Phone Consultation Call

This article is a guide to free phone consultations with Angel City Therapy. It aims to ease anxieties around the process by debunking common myths. During the call, the Wellness Team will inquire about your reasons for seeking therapy, ask clarifying questions, and then suggest a therapist based on your needs. You'll have the opportunity to ask your own questions about their experience, rates, and session format. The call concludes with the option to schedule a session with a recommended therapist, with no pressure to commit. The article emphasizes that this consultation is about finding the right fit and encourages potential clients to take the first step toward therapy.

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When the Smoke Clears: Navigating Grief After the LA Fires
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

When the Smoke Clears: Navigating Grief After the LA Fires

This article explores the collective trauma experienced by the Los Angeles community after the recent wildfires. It provides information on coping mechanisms, available resources, and the importance of seeking support from therapists and community organizations. Learn how to navigate grief, anxiety, and survivor's guilt while rebuilding your life after this devastating event.

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The Profound Lessons of Soul: Walking Into 2025 With Meaning and Presence
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

The Profound Lessons of Soul: Walking Into 2025 With Meaning and Presence

This article explores the profound message of the Disney Pixar film "Soul," which emphasizes that the meaning of life lies not in achieving grand goals but in savoring the simple joys of living. The film follows Joe Gardner, a musician obsessed with achieving fame, who learns to appreciate the beauty of everyday moments after an unexpected accident. The article encourages readers to reflect on their own lives and consider how they can incorporate the lessons of "Soul" into their own journeys, such as by prioritizing presence, redefining success, and letting go of the pursuit of perfection. Ultimately, the article suggests that by embracing the present moment and finding joy in the everyday, we can experience a more fulfilling and meaningful life in 2025.

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24 Reflection Questions and 25 Aspirations 
Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC

24 Reflection Questions and 25 Aspirations 

This article provides a structured framework for reflecting on the past year and setting intentions for the new year. It encourages deep introspection through reflective questions covering various aspects of life, including personal growth, relationships, challenges, and memorable moments. The article then guides you through setting goals and aspirations for the new year, covering areas such as personal development, travel, relationships, career, and well-being. It suggests using the bullet journal method to answer the questions and track your progress. By prompting you to identify your strengths, weaknesses, values, and areas for improvement, the article aims to increase self-awareness and help you envision your ideal future.

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The Growing Pains of Outgrowing Friendships
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

The Growing Pains of Outgrowing Friendships

Outgrowing friends is a natural part of life, but it can be a difficult and emotional process. This article explores the challenges of navigating changing relationships, from the sadness of letting go to the excitement of finding new connections. Learn how to cope with the grief, celebrate your personal growth, and embrace the friendships that truly align with who you are becoming. Discover that letting go of old friendships doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong; it's simply a testament to your evolution. Read now and gain a deeper understanding of your changing relationships.

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CPT-SA: Therapy for Sexual Assault Survivors
Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC Emerald Aueyong, MS, AMFT, APCC

CPT-SA: Therapy for Sexual Assault Survivors

The article emphasizes Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) as a highly effective treatment for sexual assault survivors. It aims to inspire hope, provide guidance, and help potential clients determine if CPT is the right therapeutic approach for them. For those not yet ready for therapy, the article offers various resources to support their healing journey.

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Seasonal Depression: Why Winter Feels So Heavy
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Seasonal Depression: Why Winter Feels So Heavy

The article outlines common symptoms of SAD, including low energy, mood swings, sleep disturbances, appetite changes, and loss of interest in activities. It then provides several strategies to cope with SAD, such as light therapy, exercise, spending time outdoors, maintaining a healthy diet, establishing a routine, staying socially connected, and seeking professional support from a therapist. The article emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and understanding that SAD is a real and treatable condition.

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There is No Excuse For Mean: The Need For Emotional Safety in Relationships
Corinne Eisenhardt, MA, LPCC, NCC Corinne Eisenhardt, MA, LPCC, NCC

There is No Excuse For Mean: The Need For Emotional Safety in Relationships

There is No Excuse For Mean—Kindness is the cornerstone of a strong and fulfilling relationship. By prioritizing kindness, empathy, and understanding, we can create a safe space for vulnerability and open communication. It's important to remember that healthy relationships involve both love and conflict. However, it's how we navigate these conflicts that determine the strength of our bond. By choosing kindness, even in the face of disagreement, we can build a lasting and loving partnership.

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Dreading The Holiday Feasts
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

Dreading The Holiday Feasts

People can face many challenges during the holiday season, particularly those with disordered eating or body image issues. It highlights the pressure to conform to societal expectations of appearance and food consumption, often leading to feelings of shame, anxiety, and isolation. The article emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, setting boundaries, and seeking support to navigate these challenges. It offers practical tips for managing stress, such as mindfulness techniques, planning ahead, and reframing holiday goals.

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‘Modern Loneliness’: More Connected Yet More Alone Than Ever
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

‘Modern Loneliness’: More Connected Yet More Alone Than Ever

The phenomenon of "modern loneliness," where people feel increasingly isolated despite being hyper-connected through technology. Social media often leads to superficial interactions and a sense of disconnection from authentic relationships. This post emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and actively seeking meaningful connections to combat loneliness. It encourages readers to acknowledge their feelings, identify their needs, and take courageous steps toward building deeper relationships.

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How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Guy’
Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC Katie Olney, MA, LPC (IL), APCC (CA), NCC

How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like the ‘Bad Guy’

Boundaries to protect one's mental and emotional well-being. Boundaries are not about being selfish but rather about creating healthier and more sustainable relationships. This article provides practical tips on how to set boundaries effectively, such as communicating clearly, anticipating pushback, and being consistent. It also addresses common challenges like guilt and fear of conflict, offering strategies to overcome them.

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